Comments on: September 2005

By: Arwyn

Arwyn — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 05:07:59 +0000

It’s so easy for me to sit here over a decade out from my brother’s diagnosis, not much less than that from mine, several years off medication and into a real stability, and think, “what’s all the fuss?” But then I remember that once, it wasn’t just an integrated, celebrated, beloved, if also potentially dangerous, part of me and my life, there and easy and beautiful. It was once scary and overwhelming and, yes, akin to a haunting, and I truly did not know if I would survive. I didn’t know who I was. I didn’t know what I could trust; certainly not myself, for it was my self that was broken.

It’s easy to be smug now, easy to be an advocate now, easy to show the sane side of bipolar to the world… but it wasn’t always so.

Thank you for reminding me.

By: j-bird

j-bird — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 03:30:31 +0000

As usual, amazingly truthful and transparent. For this I say thanks.

By: slouching mom

slouching mom — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 14:45:15 +0000

i love you.

By: Deb

Deb — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 10:06:11 +0000

I find myself wanting to ask you questions as if you were able to explain to my why my dh who has the same as you and still hasn’t quite accepted the diagnosis…won’t read anything or take his meds or let me help. It is odd. Like your brains are linked somehow….we are separating. I feel like I am deserting him, we will still be close, no divorce. I need some peace though, some time to heal too. The unpredictability is what is eating away at me.
I love you lots. Thanks so much for the raw honest real amazing you

By: Xenos

Xenos — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 03:11:26 +0000

I checked out the, er, competition. Not to worry — there is no way your site could be mistaken for it. I will not say anything catty, so I will not discuss the quality of writing over there. Meow. It would have been gracious of this person to acknowledge your site being an inspiration, and including a link, though. Maybe there is more to the netiquette expected, though.

I have not commented more than twice in a couple years, but check in every couple weeks to see how you are doing. I enjoyed reading about a creative familiy in the Berkshires, (I am in Hampshire County, with a Sophia about the same age as yours). As I divorce attorney I read the news last year with dread, and although it is not my business I have to say I understand a lot more about you as you have started to talk about your illness.

I have learned a lot in the past few months. It is clearly a difficult time for you, but I have to say I am in admiration of you strength, your honesty, and the support shown for you here. And although it may be praise that you don’t need from a stranger, unless it is attached to a publishing contract, your writing is really outstanding. FWIW, I am a fan. Thank you.

By: Leigh

Leigh — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 02:18:50 +0000

Hi Sweetie,

I’ve been following along and thinking of you often. What a rough, rough time it’s been, and how very smart and brave you are sounding these days.

I would truly love to hear from you. Shoot me an email if you are so inclined–I promise I’ll write back, and promptly.

xxoo,
L.

By: Rhoni Renee

Rhoni Renee — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:40:11 +0000

found you via stumble upon tonight and must say I’m hooked. Your writing pulls me in.

By: clarity

clarity — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:29:49 +0000

Hi Jenn, I’m a loyal and so far silent supporter here, mainly because someone else has always already said whatever was on my mind, but this post has made me chime in. Both my son and my husband have been dxd as bipolar bears this year, and we finally have a name for the roller coaster we’ve been riding for so long. This post pretty much sums the whole diagnosis drama right up, these are the questions,the emotions, and the incredible pain that go with accepting the reality of a bipolar diagnosis. Thank you for shining a light in the dark places of our hearts, minds, and most importantly, our preconceptions.

By: Serena

Serena — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:53:37 +0000

Jenn, I don’t always comment, but I do always read.
Thank you for your beautiful writing and your honesty.
Life can be a painful ride, but you share yours with such touching warmth and humor even when you must be feeling chilled and not very funny at all. Your mind might be misfiring (and I often wonder whose isn’t) but your spirit is awesome.
Please keep writing this down. It’s helpful for so many!

By: Paula

Paula — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:46:28 +0000

HEY! I once bought a pair of BEAW hoojackapiffy boxers for my husband (much as my good friend Simian Farmer would have coveted them). Just so you know, there’s quality stuff at that store.

Hoojackapiffy. Your new readers should really go back in the archives for THAT post! Your comedy and drama both shines, Jenn.